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Last updated: March 2026
SwapToll is a free adult dating platform built specifically for swingers, ENM (Ethically Non-Monogamous) couples, and lifestyle-curious individuals. Unlike mainstream dating apps, we were built from the ground up for this community — with privacy, trust, and discretion as core features, not add-ons.
SwapToll is for consenting adults 18+ who are part of or curious about the swinger and open relationship lifestyle. This includes couples looking to meet other couples, singles interested in the lifestyle, and anyone exploring ethical non-monogamy. All genders and orientations are welcome.
Yes — we're early-stage and proud of it. We have 2K+ verified early adopters and are growing steadily. Being small means you'll find genuine, active members rather than bot-filled ghost profiles that plague larger platforms. We'd rather have 2,000 real people than 2 million fake ones.
Yes — browsing profiles, sending messages, adding friends, and sharing photos are all completely free. No credit card required to sign up or to connect with people. We don't lock messaging behind a paywall or charge to read replies.
Premium members get higher messaging limits and an exclusive VIP badge on their profile. The core experience — discovering people, messaging, connecting — is free forever. Premium is for power users who want to do more, not a gate on basic functionality.
No. Any payment transactions are processed discreetly. The billing descriptor on your bank or card statement will never show "SwapToll" or any adult-related term.
No — verification is optional and entirely your choice. You can use SwapToll fully without ever verifying. Verification earns you a visible trust badge on your profile, which helps others know you're real. It's a trust tool, not a requirement.
You upload a profile photo with your face visible, then take a live webcam capture. Our AI compares the two faces and detects your gender. If they match, your profile is marked verified. The webcam capture and comparison data are deleted within 30 days — they are never displayed anywhere on your profile.
Verified members can share their private verified photo directly in a one-to-one chat. The other person sees your real face and your AI-confirmed gender — without it ever appearing publicly on your profile. This is designed specifically for deeply discreet members.
A well-known problem in the swinger space is individuals creating fake profiles — particularly men posing as women to deceive others. Our gender detection is shown clearly on verified profiles, removing ambiguity even when the member keeps their photos private.
Yes. We use 256-bit encryption for all data and communications. Your exact location is never stored or shared — we only work with city-level proximity. Every photo you upload can be set to Public, Friends Only, or Private, and you control who sees each one.
We do not expose any contact information or exact location. We never link profiles to external social accounts or allow reverse-lookup. You control your username and what photos are visible. We will never sell or share your personal data with third parties.
You can block and report any member directly from their profile. Our moderation team reviews all reports. We take community safety seriously — harassment, impersonation, and disrespecting boundaries are grounds for immediate account termination.
Yes. We follow GDPR regulations for all data handling. You can download your data, request corrections, or permanently delete your account at any time. Biometric verification data is auto-deleted after 30 days. We are transparent about what we collect and why — see our Privacy Policy for full details.
Go to Profile Settings → Account → Delete Account. Your profile, photos, and messages are permanently removed within 48 hours. No waiting period, no retention, no exceptions. You can also contact support if you need assistance.
Yes. You can join with a username (no real name required), set all your photos to Private, and browse by city without exposing your exact location. You can choose exactly how much to reveal and to whom at every step.
We respond to all support messages within 72 hours. Contact our team here — we're a small team and we actually read every message.